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Sunday, 12 June 2011

when you can't even fake a smile

never been so bored in my entire life.. here's another update!

Life is unfair. You put someone first who puts you second. You study your ass off for a final only to get a B in the class when you deserved an A. You give 110% to someone in a relationship when they only give 40%. You're there for your best friend at 3 a.m. when they need it the most, and the next day they don't pick up their phone. ...You give something your all and sometimes get little to nothing back. You care so much about someone who doesn't care enough about you to say hi once in a while. You give someone your time, and they give you "Sorry, I'm busy". It seems like you're giving everyone everything, and they're just walking away with it.

Go ahead, text him first - he might be checking his phone, waiting for you. Stare into the eyes of the guy you like - memorize the color. Turn on your iPod and run as far as you can. Say hi to a stranger - you never know what they'll become for you. Have a mental health day - you know you need it. Don't go on facebook for a day and see what you can accomplish. Give money to a charity, your good karma will come around eventually. Sneak out, you might get caught, but it'll be 100% worth it. Tell that one person that you like them, what's the worst that can happen? He doesn't like you back? Then he doesn't deserve you anyways, right? Treat yourself to something indulgent, you deserve it. Smile at a stranger, it could make their day. Wink, it's sexy and makes you feel confident. After all, you are pretty hot ;). Go for somebody who is totally wrong for you, they may not be totally wrong after all. Stand up for yourself, because if you don't, who will. Moral of the story is, YOU ONLY FUCKING LIVE ONCE.

You know why it's hard to be happy? It's because we refuse to let go of the things that make us sad.

It's like you hear a song on the radio, but you've gotta see what else is playing before you decide you actually want to listen to that song. What happens if a great song came on and you missed it though, so you flip back, but all you get is the news. It's like going from something to nothing.

Don't act like someone your not, you won't get far in life, so stop pretending

Needing a man is like needing a parachute. If he isn't there the first time you need him, chances are you won't be needing him again.

It's funny because when you do something right, no one remembers. But when you do something wrong, no one forgets.

i will add more later people

Friday, 03 June 2011

make me move like a freak

enjoy! quotes from quotesarelife, some of my favourite! ps so obsessed with this song

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c90w77hmaa8

I've learned that no matter the consequences, those who are honest with themselves, get farther in life.

"Every time something means a lot to you, you push it away before it can push you away."
-That 70's Show

Sarcasm keeps you from telling people what you really think of them

He’s the king of mixed signals, and I’m the queen of second thoughts.

Sometimes, no matter how much you do, or how much you try, someone will not understand how much you've done until you're gone and they have no one left who actually cares about them, who can look out for them, and who will understand.

^holy mother of god

don't let him have the satisfaction of knowing you'll always be there waiting

Someone out there hates you the way someone else loves you.

Just remember when you're at his house undressing, you're just another girl about to learn her lesson.

Eye contact: a method used by a single woman to communicate to a man that she is interested in him. Despite being advised to do so, many woman have difficuly looking a man directly in the eyes, no necessarily due to shyness, but usually due to the fact that's a woman's eyes are not located in her chest.

It's a complicated world. People have a hard time finding each other & even when they do, they're scared to take the risk.

Thursday, 19 May 2011

young and wild and free

ENJOY! I HAVEN'T UPDATED IN FOREVER SO THIS ONE'S FOR LISA! WOOOO

Have you ever wondered if that certain someone is thinking about you at the exact same moment that you’re thinking about them?

it never actually hurt. Those are the times I want to remember more than anything.

Naturally flirty guys are a dangerous breed. They are the ones that make girls fall for them without even trying, but some how can't woo the one girl they actually do have feelings for. So, they end up with all these girls who really like them, and only one girl they really like, who just so happens to not be any of the girls that want him. It's a crazy mess. They refuse to go for the girls who like them, but they don't have the ability to turn off the flirtation device, so the girls sink deeper and deeper into the web of love. Or is it really love? That's another problem with natural flirty guys, when you fall for one, you usually don't know how they are. But you begin to figure it out after a while, and you begin to figure out how real your feelings are for them. If they can make 10 girls at one time feel like this... then it can't be real... can it? Naturally flirty guys are a breed of the male persuasion that should probably just be avoided at all costs.

I hate how people think after you graduate that we'll never see these people again. These people are the ones who know us better than anybody else. We played recess and gym with these kids. We had art and music with them too. These are the people who we did school projects with and rushed to get our homework done right before class with. These might have also been the kids we made fun of or judged, but when we leave, we'll remember them and we'll miss them. The quiet kid, the shy kid, the outgoing kid and the clown. They all will be missed. Even you

^ looks like my freind shayla and gabe............

MORE LATER

Saturday, 19 February 2011

make them wonder why you're still smiling

sorry! i WILL try to update more often, just have not had the time to... but this is to all of those who keep telling me to;) hope you enjoy this one!

Expecting the world to not treat you badly because you’re a good person is like expecting a bull not to charge at you if you’re a vegetarian

and I remember that you were that one person who could turn every frown into a smile in a few simple words, that person who lifted my head when I was losing faith in myself, that one person who carried tears on her shoulders after every fight, every breakup. the one person who always knew what I was feeling by the look on my face, that one person who accepted who I was when everyone else just laughed in my face, that one person that accepted every decision I made believing that I'd make the right decisions, the one person who knew who I really was, that one person that made the biggest difference in my life.

It may seem like the hardest thing to do, but you have to forget the one who forgot about you.

You almost convinced me you were going to stick around, but everyone knows, almost doesn't count.

I try out a smile and I aim it at you
You must have missed it
You always do

Right now, someone you haven’t met is out there wondering what it would be like to meet someone like you.

It's a cruel thing you'll never know all the ways I tried
It's a hard thing, faking a smile when I feel
like I'm falling apart inside
And now you're gone, there's like an echo in my head
And I remember every word you said
But you never were, and you never will be mine

No one wants to be treated like a piece of a board game

you're gonna have bad boyfriends and best friends-turned-enemies. you need to be yourself, you need to work hard, and you'll get there. - LC♥

I'm sorry things went so downhill. We were so sure things were going to be amazing and spectacular, but now I'm starting to see everything I didn't want to believe. I'm sorry I stopped loving you. I'm sorry you did, too. Maybe things aren't meant to be. I'm going to miss you, but it's time we hold our heads high, bite our lips and get over each other. I think it's the best way. Maybe we'll find someone better. Then again, maybe we won't.

Friday, 14 January 2011

and i built a home, for you, for me

sorry for not updating for a while... just forgot and been super busy with schoool, plus i've been feeling a hundred times more stressed than usual due to wonderful fucking ISP's and etc. however, i've fallen in love with jersey shore so at least i have that to look forward to every week hehe, hope you enjoy this one everyone! ps, dedication to lisa♥ and... i miss summer :(

People might change but there are two things that you can't change them. Their name, and the memories you've had with them

People think they know you. They think they know how you're handling a situation. But the truth is, no one knows. No one knows what happens after you leave them, when you're lying in bed or sitting over your breakfast alone and all you want to do is cry or scream. They don't know what's going on inside your head - the mind-numbing cocktail of anger and sadness and guilt. This isn't their fault. They just don't know. And so they pretend and they say you're doing great when you're really not. And this makes everyone feel better. Everybody but you.

^yes

Stick with friends who saw you, when nobody else did. Stick with friends who you can call assholes, and know it's a code word for I love you. Stick with friends who look at your mistakes, and think it's fucking awesome. Stick with friends who don't give a fuck when you're crying, because they know you're stronger than that. Stick with friends who were true to you from the very start
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It never actually hurt. Those are the times I want to remember more than anything.

^took this!

I must learn to love the fool in me. The one who feels too much, talks too much, takes too many chances, wins sometimes and loses often, lacks self-control, loves and hates, hurts and gets hurt, promises and breaks promises, laughs and cries.

How that kid makes her smile from across the country is beyond me

someone out there is meant to be the love of your life, your best friend, your soulmate. the one you can tell all your dreams to and he will never laugh at your heart. he'll brush the hair out of your eyes and send flowers when you least expect it. he'll call you to tell you goodnight before you get into bed or just because he is thinking about you. he'll be bursting to talk to you each morning just to hear the sound of your voice. he'll look into your eyes and tell you that you are the most beautiful girl he has ever seen, and for the first time in your life, you will believe it.

people spend their whole lives trying to live up to other people's expectations and being told what to do. i say screw that; be free. do what you want, go where you want, and reach for the sky because life has no limits or boundaries. boundaries are just other people's fears, and limits are just other people's expectations. you only get one chance to do all the things that life offers you. have no enemies, no regrets. no fears, and then you'll have really lived life

We cling to music, to poems, to quotes, to writing, to art because we desperately do not want to be alone. We want to know we aren't going crazy & someone else out there knows exactly how you're feeling. We want someone to explain the things we can't